75% of the path to marriage lies in the selection process.
Now, there isn’t any scientific theory to this number it’s
merely my opinion gathered from coaching so many people.
It is my belief that the big reason so many marriages don’t
last isn’t because marriage is so hard or because people
“change,” it’s more so because people don’t put enough effort
into the selection process when choosing life partners. We are
so hungry for the wedding that we forget about the marriage
part, and we are so excited about posting it on Facebook that
we forget we actually have to live it in real life.
let’s focus on a few reasons why your woman might be Ms.
Wrong.
1) It’s always all about her
Selfishness in a relationship is like a disease that spreads and
manifests itself into all areas of the relationship. It starts with
her being selfish about her time and resources, next thing you
know she is being selfish about sex, and before you know it
your needs are never being met but all of hers are. If
everything is all about her you may be with MS. WRONG!
2) She is never happy and shows no appreciation
You work hard everyday, give her everything she needs and
wants, and you’ve even sacrificed your happiness for hers yet
she STILL never seems happy. She always has an attitude
about something and she never stops to just say “THANK
YOU, I APPRECIATE YOU.” If this is your woman she might be
MS. WRONG because eventually you will need her to be
happy and you will need appreciation to encourage you to
keep going.
3) She can’t get along well with anyone. Ever.
Have you found yourself losing a lot of friends and even
having to distance yourself away from family because your
lady just can’t seem to get along well with anyone? You
dread going to friend and family cookouts because you know
it won’t turn out well? Oh and for some reason it always
seems to be someone else’s fault too. She keeps the drama
going and you are always caught in the middle. If she doesn’t
love you enough to get along with the people you care about
most she may be MS. WRONG.
4) She is always passive aggressive and uses the silent
treatment often.
Communication is the most important skill in a relationship so
if her idea of communication is being passive aggressive and
giving you the silent treatment every time something is wrong
with her then run for the hills! If she says one thing and
means another and either way you lose she may be MS.
WRONG!
5) She shows no nurturing qualities
As men we like to be taken care of and nurtured the same
way women like to be protected and made to feel secure.
Furthermore if you want a family you will need someone with
nurturing abilities. Sure she may be a great career woman
but if you want a family and she doesn’t have a nurturing
spirit that can benefit you and your future children she may
just be MS. WRONG!
6) She doesn’t support any of your endeavors
If you are a dreamer and have many things that you love to
do yet she takes no interest in any of them then she may not
be the woman for you. You are going to need the support of
your woman to accomplish the things you want to
accomplish. She can’t be a passive participant because you
are going to need her to care about you and your life and if
she doesn’t do this she may be MS. WRONG!
7) She has no friends outside of you
If she decided to drop all of her friends just because of your
relationship then don’t be surprised when she doesn’t want
you spending time with your boys. We all know we need time
with our boys so she needs to have some friends outside of
you so she can do the same. A smothering relationship will
eventually get old and you will grow distant. If she doesn’t
have any friends she may be MS. WRONG!
She is insecure and distrusting
No one wants a nag for a mate! If you can’t step outside of
the house without answering 21 questions or if you can’t
leave your phone around without her needing to keep tabs on
it then that tells you a lot. If she has no trust in you and you
haven’t given her a reason to be distrustful then she may be
MS. WRONG!
Sometimes as men we get so caught up in the physical and
the intimate that we overlook the qualities and the substance.
We like the attention we get from having the “trophy” on our
arms, but we don’t have the foresight to see that eventually
that attention will get old and we will be stuck with everything
that’s underneath that beauty. If you think you are with MS.
WRONG then marrying her is the last thing you want to do.
CHOOSE WISELY MY FRIENDS!
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